Aapko sirf aap hi achcha feel kara sakte hai.

Hum sabhi ne kai baar dekha hoga ki jab hum achcha mahsusu kr rahe hote hai to hum chahe kisi bhi conditions me kyun n ho lekin hume us conditions me koi khaas kami nazar nhi aati hai, Jabki jab hum achcha mahsus nhi kr rahe hote hai to humare liye jitni bhi achchi conditions kyun n aa jaye wo sb hume kharab hi lagti hai to seedhe sedhe kaha ja sakta hai ki humara achcha mahsus krna humari conditions per depend nhi krta hai jabki ye to humari soch per depend kerta hai. Ager hum khud se ye sawal kare ki is samay main kaisa mahsus ker raha hoon to aapko jawab mil jayega. Akser aapne dekha hoga ki hum humesha positive aur negative thinking ke baare me baate krte hai aur hum ye bhi achcha tarah jante hai hum kab negative soch rahe hai aur positive iska andaga hume lag jata hailekin aap ye bhi jaante hai ki negative thinking kahin n kahin aapko liye hanikarak hai to seedha sa rasta hai isse bachne ka waise sayad aapko pata ho ki sayad aapke dimag me ek din me lagbhag 60000 thoughts aate hai lekin inn 60000 thoughts ko control kerna ya fir inme se select kerna ki kaun sa positive hai ya negative hai sayad possible n ho lekin baate aisi hai jisse aap ise kuch had tak control ker sakte hai wo ye hai ki aap ka achcha mahsus kaerna. Aur aap achcha tabhi mahsus ker sakte hai jb aap wahi soche jo aap apni life me hote dekhna chahte hai n ki wo jo aap apni life me hona nhi dekhna chahte hai. Main aapko batata hoon ki jyadatar hum apni life me wahi sochte hai to hum nhi chahte ahi aur jis wajah se hum her din bura mahsus kerte hai. Aur aap ab to ye samjh hi gaye honge ki bura mahsus kerne per aapke sath kya hoga. To jo main aapko batana chahta tha uska sedha maksad yahi hai ki bahri cheeze aapko achcha mahsus nhi kara sakti hai, jabki aapko aapki apni achchi soch achcha mahsus kara sakti hai. Aur aap payenge ki jab aap achcha mahsus ker rahe hote hai tab aapke saath sab achcha ho raha hota hai.